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Paskong Pinoy: Understanding the Psyche Behind Filipino Christmas Traditions

Christmas in the Philippines is one of the most important holidays in Filipino culture. This webinar will explore the history behind our holiday traditions, including the psychological implications that tie into the season.

This webinar aims to educate attendees about the traditions that we partake in and the psychological phenomena behind how Filipinos celebrate Christmas. The webinar will also discuss the ways in which Filipinos had to adapt in celebrating Christmas during the Covid-19 pandemic, and the psychological effects of that adaptation.

Rea Celine Villa,

Mind You Senior Psychologist

As a senior psychologist at Mind You and in line with its mission, she helps develop innovative mental health programs and integrated policies that strive to help the company and its clients. She is also responsible for managing operational systems and strategies and manages the team of psychologists that power Mind You’s sessions.

Rea is a registered psychologist and educator whose passions include the promotion of positive mental health practices and helping others overcome mental disorders such as anxiety and stress. Through her 15 years of experience with education in the university setting, Rea continues her advocacy through her work today.

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How You Work, and How to Make it Work: Understanding Personality Types in the Workplace

Our personality is what drives our behavior; it is the fundamental aspect guiding our actions and thoughts. Personality traits predict important life outcomes, such as success in love and work life, well-being, health and longevity.

This webinar aims to define personality and discuss the factors that affect it. It will also cover various personality types found in the workplace and how to communicate with them effectively to create a positive working environment for everyone.

Rea Celine Villa,

Mind You Senior Psychologist

As a senior psychologist at Mind You and in line with its mission, she helps develop innovative mental health programs and integrated policies that strive to help the company and its clients. She is also responsible for managing operational systems and strategies and manages the team of psychologists that power Mind You’s sessions.

Rea is a registered psychologist and educator whose passions include the promotion of positive mental health practices and helping others overcome mental disorders such as anxiety and stress. Through her 15 years of experience with education in the university setting, Rea continues her advocacy through her work today.

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Mental Health Awareness Month: Understanding the Mind & Body Connection

This event will enable individuals to learn about the strong link between the mind and body, how various mental health concerns manifest physically, and the benefits of developing a healthy lifestyle that can leave a positive impact on mental health.

The goal is for individuals to walk away with a better understanding of the relationship of the mind with the body, and to impart practical tips to nourish both aspects of their health.

Rea Celine Villa,

Mind You Senior Psychologist

As a senior psychologist at Mind You and in line with its mission, she helps develop innovative mental health programs and integrated policies that strive to help the company and its clients. She is also responsible for managing operational systems and strategies and manages the team of psychologists that power Mind You’s sessions.

Rea is a registered psychologist and educator whose passions include the promotion of positive mental health practices and helping others overcome mental disorders such as anxiety and stress. Through her 15 years of experience with education in the university setting, Rea continues her advocacy through her work today.

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National Mental Health Summit

National Mental Health Summit

The Impact of Stigma on Mental Health

Speaker: Rea Celine Villa

History of Mental Health in the Philippines and How the Mental Health Act Came About

Speaker: Senator Risa Hontiveros

The National State of Mental Health

Speaker: Susan Sabado

Women's Impact on the Economy and the Role they Play in Maintaining the Mental Health of the Family

Speaker: Ma. Aurora Geotina-Garcia

Covid-19, Mental Health, and its Impact on LGUs

Speaker: Mayor Joy Belmonte

The Effect of Covid-19 on Mental Health and Its Importance to National Recovery

Speaker: Frances Cuevas

Breaking the Binary. Breaking the Stigma

Speaker: Mira Alexis Ofreneo

The Mental Health Landscape of the Filipino Youth

Speaker: Bb. Pilipinas Francesca Taruc, Araneta City

Caring for Mental Wellbeing as a Business Decision

Speaker: Cheryll Lat-Agsaoay

The Price of Presenteeism: Computing for the cost of poor mental health in a corporate setting

Speaker: Miguel Valdez

Public Mental Health in the Philippines

Speaker: Dr. Dinah Palmera Nadera

Psychology and Sports

Speaker: Dr. Karen Trinidad

About Mind You's Partnership with the Australian Government via the Business Partnerships Platform

Speaker: Steve Robinson AO

What's Next for Mental Health and Behavioral Health

Speaker: Yuri Marshall

Panel Discussion

Speakers: Miguel Valdez, Dr. Dinah Palmera Nadera, Rea Celine Villa, Michael J. Needham

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Global Mala Manila 2021: Mind You Ambassador Elle Adda on ‘Coping with Anxiety’

Global Mala Manila 2021: Mind You Ambassador Elle Adda on ‘Coping with Anxiety’

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Mind You features in #theNEOway: Mental Health in the Philippines

Mind You features in #theNEOway: Mental Health in the Philippines

Yuri Marshall

Yuri Marshall
CEO at Mind You

The mental health landscape in the Philippines has always been ripe for transformation – even pre-pandemic. According to the World Health Organization (2017), around 6 million Filipinos are estimated to live with depression and/or anxiety, making the Philippines the country with the third highest rate of mental health problems in the Western Pacific Region. The pandemic simply exacerbated these challenges: a study by UNICEF last year showed that 30% of households reported that someone in their household had developed mental health symptoms during the pandemic. With news of new COVID variants and every-changing quarantine protocols, it is understandable that the general mood is one of frustration and ongoing anxiety.


What’s more is that culturally, mental health is still predominantly perceived as ‘taboo’ or a passing trend. The important of ‘resilience’ is ingrained in us at a young age, and this concept is used to almost invalidate the presence of mental health challenges. We tell our loved ones that they should ‘just get over it’, or ‘others have it worse’. It is widely believed that to seek out a therapist, one must already be at their breaking point. The stigma is further reinforced by the socio-economic barriers that still exist, wherein therapy sessions can cost Php3,000 or more, rendering it virtually inaccessible to the general population.


These circumstances painted an eye-opening picture of the work that needs to be done in the Philippines, and brought forth the conceptualisation of Mind You. Our objective is to lower costs, bridge the gap between demand and access to mental healthcare services via tele-psychology, and to de-stigmatize the misconceptions surrounding mental health.


Our current focus is to provide services to organisations. The pandemic has certainly illuminated existing challenges and created new ones in the work space, but we do have some useful mental health tips to recommend. One important tip is to ensure you are forming – and maintaining – authentic relationships. In a time of social distance, it is key that we continue to make meaningful connections with others. Secondly, remember to create healthy work-life boundaries, whatever this may mean in your own circumstances. Finally, consider starting a journal. Journaling allows you to unlock a deeper level of introspection to help you process and acknowledge your challenges. When we can articulate what makes us tick, and what brings us joy, we are better able to equip ourselves with the appropriate coping mechanisms to deal with whatever comes our way.


Ultimately, real inter-generational change will require effort from every level of society, from policy makers to organisations, even down to the individual. Simply opening up to have a conversation about your loved one’s mental health is already a huge step in the right direction. If we can create a society that is more secure and informed, we create one that is more empowered, and we open up ourselves to a future of limitless potential.


Source:

#theNEOway Newsletter October 2021

Available at: <https://mailchi.mp/43fc7f416e68/theneoway-newsletter-7929153>

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Mind You Celebrates Its First Anniversary

Mind You Celebrates Its First Anniversary

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This month marks the 1 year anniversary of Mind You’s mission in the Philippines. We have grown from 5 original founders to over 50+ dedicated souls who work day and night to help support people’s mental wellbeing and to help save lives.


Last Saturday, some of our Mind You family celebrated its first-year anniversary on a beautiful beachfront estate in the Philippine province of Batangas. The purpose of the getaway was to re-centre our energies and strengthen our culture of contribution, gratitude and passion towards changing the well-being of a nation.

The celebration consisted of a variety of culture building activities such as football, archery, grounding, meditation and life goal-setting. Besides celebrating our annual milestone, it was also an opportunity to ensure that our team continues to practice what we preach.


As a culturally transformative organisation, with a challenging mission to destigmatize attitudes towards mental health, we have been expanding our team and travelling at rocket speeds. It was of paramount importance for us to be highly self-aware and grant ourselves the time and space to build on the meaningful connections we have with one another. We took the time to recharge and rejuvenate in the presence of nature, and to re-focus on our own goals—both work and personal. This week also marks the third year anniversary of the Mental Health Act, a legislation that provided a springboard for Mind You to serve the people and manifest our vision.


The team came away from our company retreat feeling well-rested and more motivated than ever. Our bond to nature and to the nation solidified our endeavour to realise that it is both a privilege and an absolute pleasure that the work we are doing is the most meaningful work of our lives. 


It is quite humbling what Mind You has achieved so far. We now work with 15 different industries, including Retail, BPO, IT, Education, Banking and Finance, amounting to over tens of thousands of employees in total and counting. We have implemented a robust internship program, partnering with three universities and have subsequently hired four student candidates as full-time employees. We are now receiving daily bookings for psychology sessions each month, illustrating that we are slowly but surely reducing stigmas surrounding mental health.


We believe that if we can create a world that feels more secure and a little less afraid, we can brave the tides of life. A life  where mental health is a stronghold as opposed to a weakness, where empathy, compassion, gratitude and patience takes center stage, where we can all truly accomplish our goals and feel fulfilled, in whatever way that is meaningful to you. 


We wish to also acknowledge that we would not be here without the support from business leaders who believe in the importance of mental health and how it affects every aspect of one’s life. We would like to thank them all for their trust, their commitment, and for investing in their employees’ wellness during these unprecedented times. 


Here’s to our life’s best work – and to anyone reading this, we look forward to hearing your story and how you have overcome your challenges. Let’s change our culture together, hand in hand, we can create a safe prosperous nation and take care of each other’s well-being.

Sandra Rodriguez

Marketing Communications Manager

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The LGBTQIA+ Community: The Challenges They Face and the Silver Linings

The Challenges

The community at large is mostly represented through gay beauty pageants held in community events like barangay (town) fiestas and international pageants; an environment that Astudillo describes as largely tolerant but remains to be the ‘butt’ of jokes. It goes without saying that this only represents a very specific segment in a very diverse community.

Of those within the community experiencing further stigma is the group of people living with HIV, suffering from mistreatment by family, friends, colleagues, and employers. Most HIV infections in the Philippines occur among the LGBTQIA+ community, and the country has the fastest-growing HIV epidemic in the Asia-Pacific region.

According to LGBTQIA+ rights, advocacy groups, there has been an increase in hate crimes against the community, with Filipino transgender murders being the highest number of murders in Southeast Asia since 2008.

A 2017 study conducted in the Philippines concluded that external stigma led to self-stigmatization, which induced stress in the participants. The study found a correlation between this perceived stress over sexuality and suicidal ideation.

In the realm of politics, government officials and public figures remain divided on the issue, with prominent organisations offering contradictory rhetoric. For instance, the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of the Philippines ceded that legislation of same-sex marriage in the Philippines would mean ‘equality for all’, but then went on to state that ‘falling for the same sex is wrong’.

The Silver Lining

While the country has some ways to go, clear efforts have been made to progress the country from a state of ‘tolerance’ to a state of ‘acceptance’.

In the 2018 case Falcis III v. Civil Registrar-General, while the Supreme Court dismissed the case seeking to legalise same-sex marriage in the Philippines, it noted that the 1987 constitution, in ‘plain text’ imposes no restrictions on same-sex marriage. This may provide an opportunity for petitions seeking to legalise same-sex marriage. This may provide an opportunity for petitions seeking to legalise same-sex marriage and civil unions with more of a legal standing.

Following the 2016 Philippine elections, Geraldine Batista Roman, political and journalist, was elected as the Representative of the 1st District of Bataan, becoming the first openly transgender woman elected to the Philippine Congress.

The Philippines was ranked as number 10 amongst different countries across the world that are most accepting of homosexuality, according to Pew Research Center. Other than Australia, the Philippines is the only country in the Asia Pacific included in the top 10 list.

A study conducted in Southeast Asia about homonegativity asked whether lesbians or gay men are rejected as neighbours among Southeast Asians. It was found that Indonesia (66%) and Malaysia (59%) had the most homonegative attitudes: meanwhile, Thailand (40%), Singapore (32%), Vietnam (29%), and the Philippines (28%), were less rejecting.

Book a session with one of Mind You’s licensed psychologists today to get the support you may need.

Sandra Rodriguez

Marketing Communications Manager

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Here’s What You Need to Know About Grief

Grief is different for everyone. There is neither a timeline nor are there linear stages. Learning about the turbulent nature of grief can help us find our way to healing. Some individuals will not experience all the elements of grief, and others may experience these elements in different orders.

It is important to give yourself the space and permission to go through any of the elements as it comes because your healing process is unique to you.

The elements of grief according to the Kübler-Ross’ Grief Model is as follows:

Denial

What you feel: Avoidant, Confused, Elated, Shocked, Fearful

Denial is a way to protect ourselves from the initial pain caused by the incident. The abrupt shift in our reality can be overwhelming, and by denying what has happened, it slows down the emergence of that new reality.

Anger

What you feel: Frustrated, Anxious, Irritated

Anger is normal. As we try to adjust to a new reality, we are likely to experience extreme discomfort and fear. Because there is so much to process, anger may feel like a powerful emotional outlet.

Bargaining

What you feel: Guilt, Hopelessness, Exasperated, Desperate

Bargaining is when we tell ourselves one side of a story compromising to alleviate the pain. We sometimes reach a point of exasperation where we are willing to do almost anything to alleviate the pain. We may say things like, “I promise to be a better person if you let this person live.”

Depression

What you feel: Overwhelmed, Helplessness, Hostile, Escapism

At this stage, bargaining no longer feels like an option, and reality sinks in. We begin to feel the loss of our loved one in abundance. The emotional fog begins to clear and the loss feels unavoidable.

Acceptance

What you feel: Openness, Hopeful, Positive

At this point, you have accepted the new reality. We are no longer resisting reality, and we are not trying to create scenarios to make it something different. Planning future steps towards a positive outlook now becomes possible.

Whatever stage of grief you’re in, know that Mind You is here for you. Book a session with one of our licensed psychologists today to feel out loud.

Sandra Rodriguez

Marketing Communications Manager

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8 Habits of Highly Effective People

8 Habits of Highly Effective People

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Trying to stay on track at work can feel overwhelming at times. You feel as though you’re falling behind and can’t seem to get anything done. You find yourself staying late after work and skipping your lunch break when in reality, the extra hours don’t make much of a difference. In addition, working long hours can negatively impact your overall health.

Highly effective people (HEPs) rarely need to work extra hours to complete their tasks on time. Their secret? Working smarter, not longer. Here are habits you can pick up to become more highly effective:

 

 

1. Prioritize the Most Important Tasks

Trim the fat of your to-do list by completing the most important tasks first. The start of your shift is usually the best time to complete tasks as you’re more likely to be more alert and energetic.

2. Focus on the Task, and Less on the Time

When assigned a new project don’t think too much about how long it will actually take. Instead, think about what actually needs to get done and break it down into sub-projects. By starting a project with this mindset, the tasks will feel more manageable.

3. Communication is Key

What usually distinguishes HEPs from the rest is their ability to communicate and collaborate with their team and superiors. By improving your communication skills you’ll eliminate the chances of miscommunications or misunderstandings and avoid wasting precious time on a project.

4. Create a Routine to Automate Decisions

There’s a reason why some of the top CEOs, like Mark Zuckerberg, choose to wear the same outfit every day. Create a work uniform. Start meal prepping over the weekend. Automate decisions, so you can transfer the saved energy into your work.

5. Avoid Multi-tasking

If you have many things to do, go through them one at a time. Studies have shown that those who work on multiple tasks at the same time are less likely to perform well compared to participants who focus on one task at a time.

6. Manage Stress

While some work stress is inevitable, using your free time to relieve yourself from tension can boost your effectiveness when it’s time to head back to the desk. Some great stress relievers include exercising, meditation, spending time with friends and family, practicing a hobby, or even just walking in a park.

7. Let Joy Be Your Main Motivator

Whether it’s big or small, if you enjoy something then keep doing it. That being said, for every job there will always be a task or two that is less fun. But once you become aware of the things that bring you joy at work, volunteer to do them whenever you have the chance.

8. Attitude is Everything

A positive attitude can go a long way during the workday. A good attitude will help you set high standards for your work, make decisions easier and ensure that you’re taking responsibility for yourself and the team.

Here are ways to reinforce your ability to stay resilient when facing adversity. 

Correct self-defeating behaviours. When we feel lonely, we sometimes act counterproductively by avoiding further social interactions to minimise the risk of feeling this way again. Take a moment to identify the excuses you make in social situations and challenge yourself to attend or initiate despite your fears. You can also make a list of people whose company you enjoy, and initiate plans to meet up with them.
Fail fast and learn faster. Failure can sometimes distort our perception of reality by making our goals seem further out of reach, which demotivates us from continuing to pursue them. Reorient your mind to acknowledge that everybody makes mistakes, and take this failure as an opportunity to learn and grow. Establish what you had under your control, such as your effort or preparation time, then identify how you can improve on these factors moving forward. Not only will this help you develop a more positive and productive attitude towards future roadblocks, but it will also increase your chances of success. 

Do not dwell. When we make mistakes, we tend to turn the situation around in our heads and become very self-critical. While it is important to reflect in order to improve, catch yourself from spending too much time thinking about what happened and what could have been. You can do this by distracting yourself with an activity that requires concentration, such as doing brain teasers, reading educational articles, or watching light-hearted TV shows.

Understand rejection. Rejections have a way of making us feel undervalued and invalidated. For instance, you may feel dismissed by a social circle, or your application for a job did not progress to the next stage. While our friendship groups and careers form part of our identity, they do not define us entirely. Affirm yourself by listing down attributes and qualities that are important to you and that you believe you possess, your achievements, and hardships you have overcome. 

Unload emotional baggage. We carry excessive guilt often because someone we care about has not yet forgiven us. A key ingredient to a sincere apology is empathy. When you apologise to someone, make sure you show that you understand how you made them feel. If your apology is sincere and they are still not ready to forgive you, know that this is something out of your control. Time and space heals all wounds, yet there will be times when the other party will not give you the closure you need, and you will need to learn how to do this for yourself. Practice self-forgiveness and self-betterment by acknowledging your shortcomings, identifying how to improve, and following through.